Do you feel your time is running out? If you have so many creditors contacting you that you are frustrated, you may need to look at filing Chapter 13 Bankruptcy.
You may find it embarrasing to look at filing for bankruptcy. However, if you have no other choices, this may be what you have to do. You will find that it is hard to decipher what to do in this economy. Working more than one job and then having to take care of your family is hard. It is also hard to find viable solutions with creditors when you are feeling depressed. You may not know who to pay, and how to contact them if you are behind on your bills.
Try to find a professional that will allow you the time to explain how you have gotten into this situation. You will need a listening ear to give you prompt advice, and respect you for attempting to rebuild your life again.